M.O.D. has gotten a lot of questions about gender identity and gender expression lately. He’s kicking himself a bit since he’s never been that big on photos, so he doesn’t have many pictures of himself expressing male save for some selfies.

However, let’s just get something out of the way- gender expression and gender identity are not the same thing. They are entirely separate entities, and one is not dependent on the other.

Some of these pictures are old, and some of them are new, but in all of them M.O.D. is male. Is he using a male gender expression? Not all the time, and that’s okay, as long as he’s comfortable with it.

Jut because you’re a man doesn’t mean you can’t rock a dress and enjoy a facial.




It’s days like this that I like to remember that the Irish government are ever proud of the Spire of Dublin.


It’s literally a 400 ft metal spike sticking out of the ground. It was supposed to be done for the new millennium but they didn’t start building it until 2002.

And it’s supposed to be self-cleaning but it doesn’t work and there’s no way to clean it.


not to mention it’s ‘unofficial name’

the erection at the intersection